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AUG-26-04
8:11:52
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Forum: Christian Singles Member Surveys
RE: When is the right time
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A long time ago, an older and wiser woman once told me this little story: "If you love something or someone,
let them go. If they come back, they are yours. If they
do not, it was never meant to be." Surely as we go to our heavenly father in prayer and supplication, He will
listen and in answering our prayer, He will do what is right for us in the 'Now' of our lives. If He does not answer as we would like, then maybe we should sit back and re-evaluate our position. After all, who of us is the wiser? Is it God or is it our own ambitions?
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AUG-9-04
21:16:5
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Forum: Christian Singles Member Surveys
RE: When is the right time
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Healthy relationships are built by interacting and communicating at a constructive level. Every day brings you another step closer, there is are not defined points in a relationship other than possibly the decision to be married.
Yet there are some key elements that should be in place before coming to a final decision to spend your life together. These are a few of them. I would suggest doing a search online for at least some more advice from reputable Christian sites. Also find a good Christian counselor you feel comfortable talking with once you find that special someone.
. Know yourself! Take the time to make any necessary changes YOU might need so that you can become a good partner to someone. You CANNOT be happy in ANY marriage without first being happy yourself!
. Have you abstained from any form of sexual activity?
. Are you able to communicate well about anything you discuss?
. Know what your needs are. You must know what you need so that you can communicate them to a potential partner. These are the things you cannot compromise on! Ask your partner what his/her needs are. Find out whether the two of you can meet these needs for each other. I can't express to you enough how important this really is.
Understanding some key principles in life will prepare you for what lies ahead, these are the things that will give you insight through anything you go through in life.
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JUL-26-04
4:1:52
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Forum: Christian Singles Member Surveys
RE: When is the right time
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i have bhen corisponding with someone i met on this site for months i was even in her state however we did not meet slthow i was in the state for 6 weeks i learned tings the auto rental was nearby sinse i was in a condo in her state i learned that one of the valet parkers rented cars to people this i would have not known if i was not told by my parents that they are expecting rates and i guess types of cars to rent as this is his sideline it also tells me that we will meet in gods time not to rush it the time may be wrong i beleve i was being prepared to meet but at gods timing not mine thanks
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JUL-14-04
16:18:45
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Forum: Christian Singles Member Surveys
RE: When is the right time
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It all depends on who you are. Each person falls in love differently from someone else. Take time to get to know eac other. When it's love you'll know. If you're not sue pray about it. God will tell you if you are or not. My grandparents(my dad's parents) dated 2 months and then got married. They celebrated their 52 wedding anniversary on Mon. They are very happily in love. My parents dated two years and have been married 28 years. Like I said it all depends on the person.
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JUL-6-04
22:47:28
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Forum: Christian Singles Member Surveys
RE: When is the right time
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Skeek
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WOW, the question is valid!
Maree, how about just let it be! When we push it might brake because it falls, when we pull it might brake as well! So try to just let it be, if is meant to be it will be if not....... there are many excuses that can be used to 'brake' or not to keep working into a deeper or more serious relationship. Maybe that is why Im single!
:)
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